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May 8 - 14, 2016
An Akashic Perspective on Human Sexuality
What are the components of a healthy sexuality and how can we tell if our individual sexuality is healthy or pornographic?
The first thing to know here is that human beings are hard-wired to love. You are built to feel loved. You are built to love others and love everything around you. Children who are treated with kindness, respect and compassion are automatically generous and loving with others. It is the natural state of humans to be filled with love -- it is your default position. It is only when you are given messages that there is not enough for you, or that you are not lovable, or that there is anything shameful about you at all -- that is how you begin to be susceptible to addictive patterns and messages. When this happens, you begin to seek stimulus that reminds you of your inherent love. This can include sex, food, drugs, and many other forms of stimulus.
What happens throughout the human family, in every individual person, is that you are constantly navigating two completely opposing dynamics. Those dynamics are love and need. Love is inherently generous, it is inherently joyful, and it is inherently energizing. Need is inherently stingy, it is inherently exhausting, and it is inherently addictive.
It is not possible to feel love and need simultaneously. Every act arises out of love or fear and so every act generates either love or need. Throughout the world, there is strong societal confusion about love and need being the same thing. Much of your stories about romance, and therefore your stories about sex, confuse love with need. If you just think about some of the phrases in western culture to describe sexuality, you will see immediately how this happens. It is very common for a romantic message to include, "I need you." When this is said, it is meant to convey love when in fact it is not possible if you to truly share love when you need someone. When you need someone to do something for you, or to fulfill your expectations, or if you need them to fill emptiness inside you -- you are not sharing love with them. You are not generous, you are not overflowing with joy and love for them; instead you are pulling energy from them. You are drawing them toward you. You are seeking to empty them in order to fill yourself.
As you address your own personal sexuality, the first thing to do is to explore how sexuality arises in your life. When do you feel sexual? What kinds of stimulus cause arousal for you? For each of these, first start with a sense of forgiveness. Forgive yourself for whatever you notice here because inevitably you have been affected by society and part of your sexuality will likely be damaged. You must forgive yourself for this. There is nothing inherently wrong with you.
Then, for each of your answers, ask yourself, "Am I feeling energized, generous and filled with joy in this sexual arousal?" or "Am I feeling empty, lonely or needy in this sexual arousal?" Again remember, there is nothing wrong with you -- you are simply playing out the patterns of your culture. The difference between love and need is the fundamental question to explore. If you can begin to build more experiences in your life where sexuality is an expression of your love, rather than an expression of your need, you will be on the path to resolving any damage that has been done to your sexuality.
If you are one of the millions of people who engage in pornography, part of what you can begin to work on dismantling is the addiction that often occurs. With any addiction, it will not serve you to try to shame yourself out of it because that shame just leads you to a further desperation, which inevitably pulls you back to the addiction. First, remove a sense of shame and accept that this is a part of the way that you have been seeking to feel fulfillment for the love that inherently yours. Then, as you feel drawn to pornography, first before you engage with it, ask yourself, "Is there some other way I can feel fulfilled right now?" "Is there some other way I can feel close to people?" "Is there some other way I can feel comforted?"
Often what you are seeking is to feel that you are lovable and that you deserve to be close to people. You might uncover that you are yearning to feel like you belong, or you might realize that you are yearning to feel pleasure instead of pain in your body, or that you are yearning to feel awake and alive. There are so many different yearnings underneath the addiction and if you can identify what you are yearning for, what is the core need, then you can begin to build other ways to address that need.
If you are turning to pornography out of loneliness for example, you might consider spending more time with people in different sorts of activities. But in ways that fill that need so that it removes some of the drive toward pornography. This can be a very long journey. Because sexuality is deeply tied with your sense of love and your identity, it is worthwhile to take the time and effort to heal your sexuality.
In order for you to heal as a an individual and in order for you to become whole, and this is true for every human being on the planet, in order to move through Enlightenment, just as you must bring your body and your mind and your spirit and your emotions along with you, you must bring them all out into the light so to you must bring your sexuality out into the light and let all of the components of need and loneliness fall away. That includes pornography.
Why are some people heterosexual and some people homosexual? Do people have a choice about their sexual orientation?
What does being gay have to do with reproduction?
What is the meaning of being gay in the world? Do LGBT people have a unique place and what is it?
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The terms indigo and crystal children are used to describe the idea that children who have been born in the last two or three generations have been bringing a new kind of light to Planet Earth. This is something that was new about 30, 40 even 50 years ago. Essentially humanity, for thousands of years before this, has been born with the same basic contract as far as what it means to be human. Any given person being born, brought in part of their soul's energy and part of their soul's energy was clouded or covered by a veil. You forgot who you really were in order to become human. That dynamic of remembering a little bit of your soul, but forgetting most of who you really are, has been relatively steady for thousands of years in the average human baby being born. Beginning in the 1960s and 1970s and really picking up in the 1980s and '90s, every now and then a child would be born with a different kind of contract. Their contract said they would forget less of who they were. That they would remember more of their soul and their soul's purpose and therefore they would be bringing more light to Planet Earth. But, it would also be more difficult for them to be here because by carrying that light, they would find this world feels a little bit uncomfortable; it feels very dark to them. More than it does to other children.
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In the 1960s and '70s, the rate of these children began to rise. In the 1960s you might say that one in every thousand children, in the 1970s it became more like one in every hundred children. By the 1990s, about 70 or 80 percent of children were born with indigo energy or an indigo contract. Indigo is just a name that helps describe the aura and the color quality of the energy in these children. You gave them the name indigo in order to help describe that something was shifting in the human contract. In the fundamental contract that a soul makes when they become human, it is now possible to include more of your soul. It is now possible to remember more of who you really are and still be a human being. At some point along the way in the '80s and the '90s, an even larger contract, an even more expansive and enlightened contract became possible. So you gave those children a different name - the crystal children. There have been different iterations. Now that the door has been opened by indigo and crystal children and they have stabilized the experience of holding more light in their human form, they have made way for all kinds of new contracts to happen. A soul being born now into a human life can create an indigo contract or a crystal contract or something different - a rainbow contract, a violet contract. There are all kinds of different agreements a person makes when they become human. These contracts describe or reflect varying levels of forgetfulness – how much you will forget your soul’s wisdom. Varying levels of light that you are able to bring with you when you are born.
This is all part of the evolution of humanity but what we can say now at this point is that if you are alive on Planet Earth, then you are connected to enlightenment energy. There are enough human beings moving through enlightenment now and moving through enlightenment means renegotiating your contract in order to include more light in order to remember more of who you really are. That it no longer matters whether you were born indigo or born crystal. You can become indigo or crystal through your own enlightenment process. It was important for you to recognize that there was something special about these children back when you first recognized them but now it is most important that you recognize that all of you are special. Every one of you chose to be alive on Planet Earth at this time because humanity is evolving toward light and you play a fundamental role in that evolution.
It can be very useful to look back and realize that you were an indigo child or a crystal child. It can be very useful to acknowledge the children in your life and what contracts and special needs they might have because they are indigo, crystal or something else. But, ultimately the most important thing you can do is to recognize that the indigo energy or the crystal energy is simply a shift in who you are and how much light you bring into your life and carry in your body. That light becomes bigger as you heal the things that hold you back, as you heal and let go of your own darkness and your shadow and you step into more love in your everyday life. You, all of you, can be indigo or crystal. In fact you are becoming so every day as you move through enlightenment